Relationship Workout for Men

S25: Moving Beyond Transactional Dating E3: We Attract What We Are

vince vasquez Season 25 Episode 3

In this episode of Relationship Workout for Men, Vince Vasquez and psychotherapist Anna-Christina Jackson discuss the concept of "We Attract What We Are." They explore how self-awareness and understanding our "shadow side"—the traits we try to hide—are key to building healthier relationships. Anna shares insights on how men can recognize their own patterns and behaviors, work on personal growth, and attract partners who reflect their deeper values and emotional maturity. Tune in to learn how vulnerability and self-awareness can create stronger, more fulfilling connections.

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